Contact Mistress Charlotte O’Winter
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Frequently Asked Questions

Common Questions About BDSM Sessions & Booking Process

Before you reach out, you may find clarity in the answers below. These questions address the most common enquiries I receive regarding sessions, rates, availability, and protocol. If your question is not answered here, include it thoughtfully in your initial contact message. Repetitive questions that are clearly addressed on this site reveal a lack of attention—read carefully before writing.

What services do you offer?

I provide bespoke BDSM experiences, meticulously crafted to your desires, boundaries, and comfort. From power-exchange dynamics and discipline to roleplay, sensory play, and control-focused sessions, each encounter is entirely unique. Nothing is scripted; every experience is forged individually, designed to awaken your senses and indulge your fantasies.

Bookings are made in advance through my contact form, email, or WhatsApp. Kindly provide a brief and polite introduction with a summary of your interests to charlotteowinter@gmail.com or WhatsApp at +44 7377 874865. WhatsApp is for messages only; unarranged calls will be ignored.

I am available for sessions in central London, close to Paddington station. On occasion, I may offer overnight visits at the dungeon or other suitable locations if I deem you an appropriate and compatible client. Travel arrangements and any additional fees are discussed beforehand.

I am available Monday to Friday by appointment. Specific times are arranged to suit both our schedules. Early communication is encouraged to secure your preferred hour.

Occasionally, depending on my schedule. To enquire, please use the proper channels (email or WhatsApp) and include “SHORT NOTICE REQUEST” in the subject line. This ensures your message is prioritised and considered with care.

Yes. A deposit is always required, safeguarding both your time and mine. It is non-refundable, though it may be transferable under certain circumstances with a minimum of 48 hours’ notice. Payments can be made via bank transfer or a secure platform such as Tipfunder.

Is everything confidential?

Absolutely. Discretion is paramount. All communications, personal details, and session content remain strictly confidential. I expect the same in return; should we meet in public, complete discretion is required.

I operate within clearly defined limits. I will never engage in unsafe, non-consensual, or illegal acts. Requests outside my boundaries will be declined with professionalism and respect.

No. Recording or photography is forbidden unless explicitly agreed upon in advance.

Yes. I welcome all genders and orientations, with the expectation of respectful conduct at all times.

Aftercare is an essential part of responsible BDSM. It may include grounding conversation, reassurance, and time to decompress, tailored to your individual needs.

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