Journal · London
The journal of a London dominatrix
This journal is my dominatrix blog, with plain answers to the questions I am asked most often: what the words of BDSM and femdom mean, how to approach a dominatrix, how safety works and what each kind of session involves. Every entry is written by me, Mistress Charlotte O’Winter, from my own practice in London, and leads to the session pages where you can go further.
- Written by Mistress Charlotte O’Winter
- London
- Strictly 18+
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From the journal
The newest entry comes first. Each one answers a single question as clearly as I can, then points you to the page where that subject continues.
How to Approach a Dominatrix
What to put in a first message to a dominatrix, what to leave out, which channel to use and what happens after you send it.
BDSM & Femdom Glossary
Plain definitions of the BDSM and femdom terms newcomers meet first, from safeword, limits and aftercare to tribute, keyholding and sissy training.
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Where the journal leads
When you are ready to move from reading to requesting, these pages set out my sessions, the first meeting and the suite where I receive you.
BDSM Sessions
All my BDSM sessions in London in one place: feminisation, chastity, bondage, corporal punishment, face-sitting and more, with how each is shaped.
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Your First Session
What a dominatrix does, how screening, tribute and deposits work, and what happens step by step at your first BDSM session in London.
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The Penthouse at Tower Bridge
A fully equipped BDSM penthouse at Tower Bridge, near London Bridge: open-plan dungeon, Fetters equipment, private bedroom and shower. Bayswater for West London.
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Request a session
Proceed with intention
Every session begins with a considered introduction. Read my booking etiquette, then write to me through the contact form with your experience, interests and limits.